Rent Those Buns
(excerpt from Already a Bottom: The Hows, Whys, and Wherefors) : hookonline.org
If you’re already renting out space in your butt, then you know the merits of bottoming. You’re aware that bottoming has as much to do with attitude as it does with the old in and out. And, if you’re like me, you probably can’t understand why a guy wouldn’t want to be on the bottom – after all, it feels so good.
Still, there are people who prefer being, as the clinicians love to put it, the inserter. They might feel that sticking their tool inside someone gives them control over the other person. Or believe that good TOPS are harder to find in the world of escorts and can command more money.
Is that perception correct?
Do TOPS have higher earning power?
Do they – like blonds — have more fun, and are they in control?
If you ask bottoms, the answer to that — in no uncertain terms – is yes, no, maybe, definitely not, probably so, and could be. In other words, it all depends on whom you talk to… (continued)
– “You Know What I Really Want?”
– Are TOPS really in control?
– So You Wanna Be a Bottom?: Logistics, hygiene, etc.
– What was going on there?
– Ten Rules of Anal Sex by Jack Morin (Author of Anal Pleasure and Health)